I was called a racist by somebody on this very site a few years ago, when I'd neither said nor held racist views. Many people questioning uncontrolled immigration and the way that multiculturalism had done nothing to encourage immigrants to better integrate into British society have also been labelled as racists by some quarters. I fear that racism, rather like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder. I can quite understand the elderly person that has lived all their life in a small rural community feeling uncomfortable and afraid having to disrobe in hospital to be examined by a doctor of Asian descent, for example, whereas some may well have little sympathy for this attitude because they can only see racism in the situation, when perhaps it's only an understandable form of ignorance born of the narrow parameters of the subject's existence?
So I think you're wrong, Stroller - you can't speak your mind or question certain things today without somebody sticking a label on you.
I struggle a bit with the n-word when you'd be hard pressed to find an Eddie Murphy or Chris Tucker flick without them using the word themselves. You might argue that they've taken the word back as a way of defusing its power, but why use it at all?
Only slightly related, but I saw a couple of pictures a while back of the same woman. In one she was dressed in her local hunt finery. In the other she was dressed in the vestments of her career - a nurse. The article suggested that somebody seeing only the first picture would form a whole raft of opinions based on their own prejudices against fox-hunting, e.g. that she's a heartless, toffee-nosed bitch who deserves to be herself ripped apart by hounds etc. That same person seeing only the second picture might equally have formed an opinion of an angel of mercy, underpaid, overworked and under appreciated by a heartless government. Perhaps both perceptions are true, but I reckon many, when presented with both shots side by side, would find themselves drifting towards that of the toffee-nosed bitch because of their own bias.