really? In 50 shades off grey she doesn't say 'break into my house and forcibly have sex with me' after she 'jokingly' dumps him, nor does she give him any inclination that he can, which would be consensual S & M. What happens in the book is she dumps him, so the affronted 'hero' of this erotic fiction, written by a woman for women, breaks into her house and forcibly has sex with her. That isn't what occurs in S & M where everything is consensual, that is what occurs in a rape.
The reason the poorly written crap is so popular amongst women is because, according to pretty much every psychological study into women's sexual fantasies there has ever been, rape is a womans most popular fantasy. Female psychologists and journalists have written numerous articles about it, so it isn't a myth spread by their male counterparts to excuse it. Sadly, most moronic fools like to jump on their high horses espousing a morality that doesn't fit the truth, and those some stupid people believe that a person relaying that information, information freely available to anyone with an internet connection, also subscribes to commiting those actions and are themselves guilty of being some sort of rapist. well, sorry to tell you but I'm not, though I'd bet most of you couldn't say the same, I bet most of you have had sex with a woman after she's been drinking, something I've never done, technically it's rape, as Ched Evans found out. As for my respect for women, some I respect, most I don't, it's not sexism though, peoples gender doesn't come into it, why should I respect people who lack intelligence?
After you dig me out abouth what I've written I expect you all to turn your spleens on the psychologists who carried out their studies and all the women they studied and who answered the questionaires,
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