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Just a quick girl related question: I haven't messaged that girl I like in a while as I'm playing it cool (yes, it is something I'm capable of doing), but I was just thinking of sending a quick message on Christmas day and just say 'Merry Christmas, *name*, hope you have/had a good day' (depending on when I send it). I'd probably message my other friends too.... but should I message her? it'll be just over 3 weeks since I last spoke to her (hoping for absence makes the heart grow fonder rather than out of sight, out of mind).
 
PompeyLapras said:
Just a quick girl related question: I haven't messaged that girl I like in a while as I'm playing it cool (yes, it is something I'm capable of doing), but I was just thinking of sending a quick message on Christmas day and just say 'Merry Christmas, *name*, hope you have/had a good day' (depending on when I send it). I'd probably message my other friends too.... but should I message her? it'll be just over 3 weeks since I last spoke to her (hoping for absence makes the heart grow fonder rather than out of sight, out of mind).
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It's perfectly normal to recieve cards from virtual strangers (like my neighbours!) so sending a text to a friend is no problem.
 
PompeyLapras said:
Just a quick girl related question: I haven't messaged that girl I like in a while as I'm playing it cool (yes, it is something I'm capable of doing), but I was just thinking of sending a quick message on Christmas day and just say 'Merry Christmas, *name*, hope you have/had a good day' (depending on when I send it). I'd probably message my other friends too.... but should I message her? it'll be just over 3 weeks since I last spoke to her (hoping for absence makes the heart grow fonder rather than out of sight, out of mind).
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Call me old-fashioned, but what's wrong with an actual Christmas card?
 
PompeyLapras said:
Just a quick girl related question: I haven't messaged that girl I like in a while as I'm playing it cool (yes, it is something I'm capable of doing), but I was just thinking of sending a quick message on Christmas day and just say 'Merry Christmas, *name*, hope you have/had a good day' (depending on when I send it). I'd probably message my other friends too.... but should I message her? it'll be just over 3 weeks since I last spoke to her (hoping for absence makes the heart grow fonder rather than out of sight, out of mind).
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PL, I don't claim to be an expert, but there again who is, but isn't 3 weeks since you spoke, just a tad frozen rather than cool?? Don't message her on Christmas day, who the hell uses facebook etc on Christmas day, but better on Christmas eve, wishing her a great Christmas, and then tell her you cant live without her, and promise to walk 500 miles, then 500 more to be the guy who walks a 1,000 miles to fall down at her door! (well maybe not the last 2)
 
PompeyLapras said:
Just a quick girl related question: I haven't messaged that girl I like in a while as I'm playing it cool (yes, it is something I'm capable of doing), but I was just thinking of sending a quick message on Christmas day and just say 'Merry Christmas, *name*, hope you have/had a good day' (depending on when I send it). I'd probably message my other friends too.... but should I message her? it'll be just over 3 weeks since I last spoke to her (hoping for absence makes the heart grow fonder rather than out of sight, out of mind).
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I shall be exchanging the annual Xmas greeting with the ex-partner. Haven't seen her in over 10 years. :)
 
Sad for Carlisle. I like him. I saw a couple of programs he fronted about his problems and I thought he always came across very well. Hope he pulls through and he and his family can recover.
 
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