I can understand that you guys are disappointed, and clearly you had two decisions go against you, which were Adebayor's goal (at the time I thought that it was miles offside, but claerly I was wrong), and Kaboul's sending off - with 11 men, Spurs may have got the equaliser.
Regarding the penalty incidents - in my opinion, Modric was caught by Whelan, so it's a penalty.
To claim the Shawcross elbow, when he is actually facing his own goal , as deliberate hand ball is stretching the point - the Kaboul / Shawcross incident was a more legitamate shout for a Spurs penalty, but then again Kaboul was all over Walters in the build up for Stoke's opening goal (which Crouch handled - a little bit similar to VDV versus Arsenal this year, don't you think?) - so should Stoke have had a penalty, rather than the goal?
I am a bit annoyed by these anti - football types though?
You guys had an excellent following at the Brit yesterday, and in the second half played some fabulous football - but if it had'nt been for Friedel you would have been 3 down at half time, and even Spurs would struggle to come back from that - in that first half you managed 1 shot?
You did'nt have the breaks yesterday, but get over it - you know as well as I do, that there have been decisions that have gone your way this season, and I expect that you have been happy to take them?
There are 9 or 10 spurs fans from my town in Stoke On Trent, who attended the game yesterday, one of whom is a publican. Funnily enough none of those Spurs fans in the Pub afterwards had anything deragatory to say about Stoke's style of play, but had plenty of criticism of the standard of officialdom.
If you travelled to the game from North London, I imagine that you were scratching your heads on the way back, thinking "how did we lose?", but if you sat in front of your TV and now have to trot out this "anti-football" jibe, try something new - after all in 8 games including this year's LC game it's now Spurs 4, Stoke 4!