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Don't answer anything you'd prefer not to but, is this person doing anything similar in real life and are they in your area?

None of my business but I can't abide bullies of any kind and you're a decent person.

 

I'm not sure. I haven't seen him where I live but he knows my address and he drives so he could get here easily.

Got divorced in 2011 then he lost access to our daughter in 2019 due to his behaviour. He's continued to watch me and harass me on SMB since. It's an obsession that needs stopping as I don't feel safe as I'm constantly watching my back.

I've done training with WWIN for mental health support, so I've seen similar cases and I know how these things can escalate.

 

I rarely give advice Becs, to anyone.

All I'd say is that, if he's using up his anger on RTG, it may be better than him finding another way.

You have friends, over there, who can log it so perhaps you could ignore him.

If you ever need the posts as 'evidence' you'll be able to access them.

I'll shut up now, I know things are never as straightforward as they appear.

 

That's one of the reasons I left that board first time around Becs. Subtle digs about my mental health in threads because the back and forth in a footy thread wasn't going the way they wanted. It's pathetic.

There's only one person over there who knows me in real life and he used to have a dig at me on loads of threads (but we both knew it was an inside joke). He started receiving DM's from a regular over there (who didn't know he was my mate) laughing and mocking about something I'd posted in the depression thread, all because I'd ran rings round him in a footy thread.

It really bothered me at the time, but I realise now that it's tragic behaviour and people who think like that have problems in their own lives that they're trying to compensate for.

 

Shocking it is allowed, no one should have mod protection and even more so in your situation.

The whole social media thing is a car crash and tour situation highlights the absolute worst of it, the damage words on a screen can do.....

 

Been a member since the beginning and was a member of the FTM Executive club originally but rarely posted, don’t bother looking much anymore either.

 

Disgusting behaviour that, they just make up the rules as they go along.

I got banned for supposedly trolling a mag, so in your case isn’t goading the same as trolling?

Hope you’re ok Becs

 

its disgusting, mods need to be replaced, **** the T & Cs you stupid bastards and use some common sense, power mad freaks

 

What about the others, Monty is just Monty

 

I’m a Laayyydddeeee!

 

When you read a post, type a “what the ****” response then go back and find the context! Glad I found the context before shooting from the hip!!

Sounds like a nightmare. Never been on RTG for anything, pretty glad about that too

 

The saddest thing was when Pancho, an RTG Mod, banned me for life for disagreeing with him on a football subject.

He then came on here, as a new Username the next day, continued the argument and threatened me with legal action on behalf of the club

 

Wow, him and Keith were the only 2 I thought were any good

 

There are always exceptions but that is where the healthy debate comes from. I rarely get upset but do sometimes become frustrated as I think to have a healthy debate your opinions and statements should be well thought out and as informed as possible. I don't particularly like a knee jerk or uninformed post particularly when it is a strong debate. That said however my mind has been changed on occasion and that is why I find this forum both entertaining, informative and frustrating at the same time.
Good luck Becs and I hope you have more fun and dare I say disruption on here with healthy debate and the odd disagreement, generally all done like Kenny Everett in the best possible taste.

 

They are much more focused on creating clickbait these days.
They let in Newcastle fans and protected them because the drama gets people sucked in.
Hettonlass is obviously a bot used to create annoying threads and stir up arguments 24 hours a day for the same reason.
Personal arguments are allowed to go on for far too long. Two lasses fighting over Dave Herbal should be deleted on sight or at least given a cringe rating.

 

Exactly, I tried to start a thread on an upcoming England cricket game and it was deleted "because I had posted it too early" guess who then comes along and starts a thread?

 

Is he still on here?

 

No, only lasted a week or so.

I quoted a few identical phrases of his, from RTG and here, and he just vanished.

 

You’re not the only woman on here! I guess we just don’t join and declare what our gender is lol. I’m a bit late and don’t post often but welcome becs good to know I’m not the only lady

 

I popped onto RTG today for the first time since last season. I stopped going on cos I thought it had gone to the dogs and this place was a much better place to read about and discuss SAFC.
I went on after the leaked strip post came up today. A thread about vandalism at the SOL caught my eye so I had a look. It just reminded me why I left. Constant sniping at the club without any reason.

Sometimes I think we all get a bit fed up with some of the antics on here but **** me, that place is another level.