let's all hold hands and sing while we cross the line together ... I fkn cried the first time I saw this at my kids' sports day in Bucks many moons ago
having just moved to the UK from South Africa at the time, I can tell you that in SA this simply didn't happen, and my 8 year old lad who was a good sprinter was very confused ... school sports was always mega competitive, with trophies, medals and certificates being handed out to winners
you competed in your age group starting at 7,and you were taught to try your best at all times
from U12 if you were the best in your school at say high jump, you would be sent to the Provincial competition (in my case Western Province) where you competed against the best from other schools ... the top two U12 high jumpers would then get their Western Province colours and go on to the national champs, competing against all the best kids from the various provinces ... the nationals winners would then get their Springbok colours, the highest honour
to this day school sports remains extremely competitive, with a schools rugby match still capable of drawing 10,000 crowds and getting airtime on TV ... in fact, right now the annual Craven week schools U18 tournament is being played between the different provinces, and at the end of this tournament a Springbok U18 team is selected ... a number of these kids will probably go on to play for the U20 Junior Boks at their World Cup ... there is also a Craven Week U15 tournament with an U15 Springbok team selected
this applies to cricket, football, athletics, hockey, swimming, etc.
none of this holding hands across the finish line stuff, only healthy competition for those who want to compete and those good enough to rise to the top and potentially have a solid career in sport