For those interested this is the city my GF's family are 30km away from:
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Its been under siege since the start of the war and they have heard on and off shelling and sirens. But other than blowing up a couple of schools and killing children, the Russians don't seem to have made much progress as far as they can tell.
The Ukrainian army has blown the bridge between them and the city.
Sincere best wishes VM, I can only guess how you are both feeling at the moment.