It's weird Wills I sort of remember something you may have said in the past but cannot remember that. Well you have enlightened me now. I will cut out the term.it’s ok basically an exes son is trans, I adopted him when we were together.. since we split years back there was a falling out between him and his mum and now lives with me full time. I am very protective, as in the last few years we’ve had to deal with a lot of ****. He just wants a quiet life where people just leave him be. Good news though we have a college interview coming up.