Why is it "unforgivable"? I don't get that. We dropped a grand total of three points because of those defeats.
As
@Ian Thumwood rightly said, it's wrong to judge Ralph over what has been a bonkers season and a half, due to the way things are at the moment. We've had one year of overperforming spectacularly, and so far this year we've underperformed (I don't think spectacularly, but yes, we've certainly underperformed).
As I said to Lincoln, I think this squad of 'decent premier league players' are probably around the 14/15th best squad in the league (though I might put Newcastle as a better one). That's where we are right now. And that's where we'll be next season without investment. Tops.
So yes, Ralph isn't perfect, and (despite 2020) he's not a miracle worker either. What he is, and has proven over his managerial career, is that he's a very good coach. What this squad are, and have proven over the past few years, is that they're really not terribly good.
If we invested over the summer into players that Ralph wanted, and we were still in this position, well I'd be surprised, and we'd be right to wonder if he's the right man. I think it's way too early, and with completely the wrong parameters, to do so now.