I grew up poor, too, and my weight has generally wavered between normal to downright waifish. But it helped that both of my parents worked from home, and consequently we ate home-cooked meals consistently. For a lot of poor families, that isn't really an option; poorer people are less likely to work standard 9-5s, and consequently it's harder for them to cook from scratch. And because these habits are generally ingrained in children, that means that a lot of people grow up eating a lot of prepackaged food out of simple necessity. I didn't, so I am fortunate that I never developed much of a taste for a lot of it, but fortunate is the key word there.
Well my parents worked full time and my mum worked nights. She was still able to bake bread for us as it was cheaper than buying sliced bread back then. We never had a takeaway and I never heard anyone blamed for our situation in life.
We cannot undo history and you know what, we wouldn't if we could. Am I going to give up my home to someone else after working hard my whole life for it? History's breath might stink but you play the hand you are given. Too many people making excuses for themselves and for others.
I would say there are two kinds of poor. The hardworking poor who want more and those who have given up. All this victim talk does nothing to help people move on: it just entrenches a feeling of inevitable failure.
Indian Asians, btw, are above average for finances in the UK but still above average for covid deaths. Pakistani Asians are poorer and also more likely to die of covid. We cannot just blame wealth and historic racism - especially as lots of Asians come here with a lot of money.
