The worrying thing about all this is i have been involved in about 5 pm conversations since this site started, this weekend i had one of my posts quoted word for word on a thread. I always thought the P stood for private
Absolutely not once Chaos sent me a rather funny picture in one actually the paranoia comes from the belief that a PM can only be malicious
So it should ... but the notion that some posters might want to converse one to one or in a shared interest / experiences group seems to unnerve some delicate types
I would if I thought you'd know what to do with them ... but you seem more a pay per view type ... have you tried Nasal Manure as an aphrodisiac?