After reading posts from Cests thread last night, and Syds one today - it is a great shame to see that certain people feel targeted or singled out by either of the "camps".
Please can I just ask people to think about what they are writing before posting -whether you be a BiB or a BoB.
Cest, I permit myself to use you as an example, as I feel you wont take it badly and as you are one of our most passionate members i'm sure you know the feeling of your mouth running ahead of your brain.... I am sure you can think of an example of a BiB doing the same. such is the ways of passion.
In one of your posts last night I read your opinion on Bruce, which is fine, until i got to a point were it went something like this "this is my opinion, as I think all true red n white fans should feel like this..."
Now, you, as I said before, are entitled to your opinion as I am entitled to mine, but this makes me feel that you are saying i am entitled to my opinion however if i dont think Bruce should be out cos he watched the NUFC game, then you are going to say/think I am not a true supporter of red n white - and i could take slight at it.
As I said, you have probably got some examples of BiBs writing the same kind of thing - i just happen to notice you doing it cos i am usually arguing against you.
I suggest, to all of us, that when writing about something you have strong opinions about, you take a short time to read what you have written (before posting it) and think "if i was in the other camp, how would i take it" - i am sure we would save some falling out if we did this.
Just my two pennies.
Roll on Monday. FTM.
Please can I just ask people to think about what they are writing before posting -whether you be a BiB or a BoB.
Cest, I permit myself to use you as an example, as I feel you wont take it badly and as you are one of our most passionate members i'm sure you know the feeling of your mouth running ahead of your brain.... I am sure you can think of an example of a BiB doing the same. such is the ways of passion.
In one of your posts last night I read your opinion on Bruce, which is fine, until i got to a point were it went something like this "this is my opinion, as I think all true red n white fans should feel like this..."
Now, you, as I said before, are entitled to your opinion as I am entitled to mine, but this makes me feel that you are saying i am entitled to my opinion however if i dont think Bruce should be out cos he watched the NUFC game, then you are going to say/think I am not a true supporter of red n white - and i could take slight at it.
As I said, you have probably got some examples of BiBs writing the same kind of thing - i just happen to notice you doing it cos i am usually arguing against you.
I suggest, to all of us, that when writing about something you have strong opinions about, you take a short time to read what you have written (before posting it) and think "if i was in the other camp, how would i take it" - i am sure we would save some falling out if we did this.
Just my two pennies.
Roll on Monday. FTM.