I've forgotten who you are already
My point exactly.
The very last thing any Millwall fan or manager or player will do, is build up the opposition in their mind until the occasion overwhelms them.
Doesn't matter if it's Charlton, or West Ham, or Manchester United in the FA Cup Final. They play the team, exploit their weaknesses if they can, and give the game everything they have. If they get a whipping, so what. They move on.
Here at the Valley now our ambition is to finish 21st place this season, the Club is obsessed with pretending we're all a big happy family again, and our biggest games are not against the promotion contenders; Leeds, Swansea, West Brom. But against Millwall - games where we've defeated ourselves before we even walk out onto the pitch.
Millwall don't have any magical power over us. Our own heads aren't right.
In Lee Bowyer's case I'll put that down to inexperience as a manager. He has a chance to put it right at the Valley later this season.
But if we have nothing else left to play for by then, and we build that game up out of all proportion for weeks beforehand, it will end the same way.
We make a great noise about how much we hate them, but in reality we give them far, far too much respect.
Unless that stops, we'll never beat them.