Off Topic What a difference a year makes

Teessidemackem

Teessidemackem

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This time last year i was in my 10th year with me ex. We were married for 7 but i can honestly say only 2 of them years were good.
We created 2 amazing boys so ill never look back on things with regret but this time last year i was severly depressed with life because i felt for my boys sake i couldnt leave. On the plus side i was built like a brick shyte house because when the boys were in bed id spend all my time in the gym to get away from my ex and also relieve my depression.
Fast forward a year ive now found my soul mate whos 10 years younger than me,
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bought my own house and see just as much of my boys as ive always done. For anybody that feels stuck in a rut with marriage believe me its hard at first but life does change for the better!
Downside is i need to get back to the gym asap before i lose anymore muscle...
 
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Teessidemakem said:
This time last year i was in my 10th year with me ex. We were married for 7 but i can honestly say only 2 of them years were good.
We created 2 amazing boys so ill never look back on things with regret but this time last year i was severly depressed with life because i felt for my boys sake i couldnt leave. On the plus side i was built like a brick shyte house because when the boys were in bed id spend all my time in the gym to get away from my ex and also relieve my depression.
Fast forward a year ive now found my soul mate whos 10 years younger than me,
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bought my own house and see just as much of my boys as ive always done. For anybody that feels stuck in a rut with marriage believe me its hard at first but life does change for the better!
Downside is i need to get back to the gym asap before i lose anymore muscle...
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Punching
 
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Good to hear mate, I think we were all worried about you at times but even without having met you I knew you'd be alright in the end.
 
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Transition periods can be so weird and hard. I was a mess when I broke with my ex of 10 years, but 5 years on I am happily married with a 4 month year old son. Happy for you, and as the rest say.....punching!!
 
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Teessidemakem said:
This time last year i was in my 10th year with me ex. We were married for 7 but i can honestly say only 2 of them years were good.
We created 2 amazing boys so ill never look back on things with regret but this time last year i was severly depressed with life because i felt for my boys sake i couldnt leave. On the plus side i was built like a brick shyte house because when the boys were in bed id spend all my time in the gym to get away from my ex and also relieve my depression.
Fast forward a year ive now found my soul mate whos 10 years younger than me,
You must log in or register to see images
bought my own house and see just as much of my boys as ive always done. For anybody that feels stuck in a rut with marriage believe me its hard at first but life does change for the better!
Downside is i need to get back to the gym asap before i lose anymore muscle...
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Nice pic
 
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Ha thanks lads. I must say i was abit embarassed this morn when i remembered id put this on. Oh well i couldnt give a feck now youve all heard me moan and be depressed for too long now so i just wanted to share my happiness this time. Lifes good at the moment and long may it continue <cheers>. X
 
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Tel said:
Told you it'd all be ok, you look better at that size too dude imo. I'd shag ya.
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Thanks mate. Im past trying to bulk now i feel lots better and fitter being a stone lighter.
I do need to start lifting again soon though so i dont start looking weedy. Its hard now with the schools being off cause i have the boys during the day if im not at work but ill get back into it in September.
 
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