I missed the last cup final and now I will miss this one. It is my son's fifth birthday tomorrow and well before the semi win, we promised to take him to a restaurant tonight, and I can't break my promise to him. I can see the first half but must leave just after six. I am a bit late in life to have a small son but better late than never. I often get mistaken for his grandfather. So although disappointed to not be at Wembley today, I may be the only Watford fan to have something "better" to do today.