Ah I see now. I couldn't understand it, because Tina never seemed the flakey sort to me - I know she didn't like me much but I always respected that she had the bolloxs to tell me stuff straight without getting all Tobyfied about it. But if they went for her family, I can see why she would be pissed off, plus bit below the belt that one.
Golden rule mate, never ban a GCer on GC and don't think i ever have. I was nice to you anyway, I only acted the arse so you would blurt out about being the hacker - methods behind my madness.
Remember the personal chatbox when members could private chat to each other? It was the same. Base64 encoded keys actually embedded in the loaded HTML. Ye could hijack it and talk to sumbdy posing as anybody else who was currently logged in.