I don't agree with you at all - we are adults here and know we can have a difference of opinion without it causing a rift - if you can find one person who says that this has caused them to have a problem with another I will be surprised - we are not luvvies and healthy differences of opinion strengthen rather than weaken our bonds. You should see some of the other clubs where they cannot have a discussion like this as it degenerates into real nastiness.