I've been living in the Netherlands for the past 23 years and only make trips to see relatives these days. But I must admit Col's story plus the following comments shocked me, I didn't know things were this bad. I've met Col at least on one occasion and he seems a no-nonsense type of bloke, as can be seen in his posts, and if I met him late at night he would probably scare the hell out of me. So for him to get spooked says something! Joking apart quite often in these situations you fear for your loved ones. RTID, great advice and tips sorry you had to suffer this type personal invasion.