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Discussion in 'Southampton' started by TheSecondStain, Apr 29, 2016.

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  1. Craig smith

    Craig smith Well-Known Member

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    Thank you LTL that sums up what I was trying to say.
    I wasn't trying to offend or upset I was mearly trying to find the answer to why.
     
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  2. I J Miggs

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    being a ginge myself , i can say that being told i smell funny just because the colour of my hair etc is hurtfull , especially when i was younger . I have since realised that the ladies love my hair colour and i wouldn't swap it for any other colour type !
     
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  3. Le Tissier's Laces

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    Because it's not weighted (rightly) with the same history as black/female/gay and therefore seen as alright. It's not really if you actually think about it, particularly when you think about the effect it can have on a child in a playground - highlighting difference and ostracising as a result is never good - so the perpetuation of it is really not too helpful.
     
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  4. The Ides of March

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    Ginger is a brilliant substance to put in food, on your yogurt and banana, to have in tea!!!
     
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  5. sotonsaint

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    Blimey, lock me up and throw away the key !
     
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  6. Saint Sosa

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    To compare remarks about hair colour with sexual orientation or race is just completely wrong IMO.

    I can understand why you dislike what he said, I didn't agree with it myself. I have red headed family too so don't try and guilt trip me with that one.
    I don't understand why you had to make reference to the comment he made yesterday when it had no relevance to his comment about Balotelli & Adebayor. It was just very petty, if you had a problem with why not message him privately?
     
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  7. Archers Road

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    Pretty sure we all loved the ginger ninja, WGS. Don't remember him getting sensitive when the crowd started turning up in ginger wigs.
     
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  8. Le Tissier's Laces

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    Or.....maybe just think about what Craig is trying to say, and consider how it might be a problem? Imagine if you had a red headed child of seven, who was continually baited at school because of his or her hair colour. It's going to make them feel like ****, and that there's something wrong, or 'less' about them.

    Then consider if, as an adult, you should be perpetuating that distinction.
     
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  9. Craig smith

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    You shouldn't have to change just because others see it has different or not how it should be.
     
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  10. Craig smith

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    I wasn't guilt tripping anyone,I was mearly trying to find out why Koeman had to be described as a "Ginger Prick" and not something a little more PC.
     
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  11. sotonsaint

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    You hear worse at any football ground, pub etc anywhere In the country on a Saturday afternoon. Why not say something at the time when I said it, i didn't start this arguement/debate today , I was talking about how i didn't want ballotelli at Saints.
     
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  12. Saint Sosa

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    There's private messaging for that. It was totally irrelevant to the discussion that was taking place.
     
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  13. Le Tissier's Laces

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    Yes of course you do. Which doesn't make it right. But yeah, people are over sensitive these days about the slightest thing - I'm just saying in a broader context I get where Craig is coming from, and in that sense there's a lot of good that can come from realising that and adjusting behaviours.

    Back to transfers though, for sure.
     
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  14. Velcro Roy

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    Pc is for whimps!:emoticon-0105-wink:
     
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  15. sotonsaint

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    Agreed, so as I was saying, I don't want that "prick" balotelli in a Saints shirt<laugh>
     
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  16. Onionman

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    Yes but, as I mentioned before, every single person on the planet who has ginger hair is inherently evil. It's just something we all have to live with and it's a fact of life so not worth worrying about.

    Vin

    P.S. Despite that, and possibly contradicting what I say above, Dr Hanna Fry is possibly the most beautiful human being on the planet. Brains as well. And utterly charming...

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  17. SaintsFan86

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    What a waste of my time, reading that crap.
     
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  18. A Touch of Clas

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    Please shut up with this off topic stuff...
     
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  19. Velcro Roy

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    Is it cos he's got ginger hair?
     
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  20. sotonsaint

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    <laugh>
     
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