You could but if it's a joint account she'll see it anyway. I think it's safer to stick out in a separate account and hope the lawyer doesn't find it. Shouting it from the rooftop (aka Facebook) was just plain stupid.
if you are in middle of divorce or whatever you would surely do a bet in a bookies. but.anyway. **** happens
Sorry to hear that. Is this the one who said you didn't pay her enough attention and you didn't like her friends? I've lost track
It's the same one that I wrote a couple of posts about a while back since we'd been together for 15 months. She probably said that, but she accused me of a lot of things. Last week it was that I didn't trust her and had been looking through her phone which was all bullshit and lies. The sad truth of that is I was in the living room and I'd got up while she was upstairs to make a quick note of some stuff she'd said she liked so I could get her a nice christmas present, she comes back downstairs and obviously because she'd left her phone in there and I'd sat back down quickly and 'looked suspicious' I was obviously snooping.
Last time I told someone in a similar situation that they were well rid, they ended up getting married
Are you telling me I'm 'well rid'? feckin hope not. Doubt I'll ever hear a peep out of her again and that's alright ... I get it. Men are just a resource for women, they don't love you, probably don't even like you, just what resources you can give them, and they manipulate, suck all the energy and finances out of you that they possibly can. Everything is about them and you are nothing to them, as soon as they decide you don't meet their needs anymore it's not that you're nothing, you never even existed. One good way to sum it up is ... she's not yours, it's just your turn. Wouldn't surprise me if she had one or two back-ups she was keeping around in case things went on the slide and I know she's already back on dating apps even though it's been less than a week since it ended. Not hating on her, it's just female nature. It's just funny and predictable to me. Thankfully I don't look to a relationship any more for fulfilment or happiness and I'll never sell myself out, I get my satisfaction from my work, interests and hobbies.
In all seriousness, relationships are a bitch but when you find a good’n it makes going through all the **** ones worth it. The other option is move to Thailand and become a monk
Tell that to the ****ing unit. Wish it would move on and fast. They're all twats, bar my daughters, of course
No I'm not telling you you're well rid. The last person I said that to I actually knew. I don't know you and only have the little you tell us to go on about your relationship. The best any of us can do is to give you general advice or sage words. I do get the sense that you're genuinely hurt this time so my sage words for you are - allow yourself a specific amount of time [you decide how long that should be] to feel all the feelings that this has brought up. If you try and push them away or pretend it doesn't hurt you're storing up negativity somewhere in your body and it will manifest in some form of ill health e.g. headaches or stomach upsets. After the time you gave yourself to wallow, or whatever, has passed, put your effort into yourself. When you are happy, healthy and enjoying life again you'll find someone who's attracted to you for who you are. As G said, there are some good ones out there.
