Never heard of Cape Canaveral before? When I go next year we’ll have tickets for Universal and Islands of Adventure, sea world, Aquatica, Volcano Bay which is new, can’t wait for that one and Busch Gardens. Looking forward to doing Busch Gardens again as last time we went the day was cut short as there was a massive storm and the park shut so we didn’t get to finish the other half of the park. Most importantly I got to go on Sheikra though
I reckon you've got it bad for this one mate. The old green eye is definitely in town, which means that you give a ****. If she's worth a light then she won't be bouncing up and down on Carlos the leering barman, and the fact that she's been in constant contact backs that up. I've noticed that you've been very analytical over this one's moods and the fact that she's maybe a bit needy, again this suggests that you're into her, despite trying to be cool about it. Me thinks deep down you really like her, and your self defence mechanism has kicked in, as you don't want to get hurt if she doesn't reciprocate. Good luck with it, it's time you settled down ffs
My 13 y/o is into lego, video games (only the boring FPS type), and quantum physics... ... No, not kidding either.
I think you want it to work out. thats why i asked you at the time did you like her enough? My advice being serious is don't forget her issues as you examine your own. You could be right that its down to you but also only you can assess if here crying, dropping the i love you bomb and constantly contacting you is appropriate for where you might be in relationship. Are you willing to drop some gym and tennis to be with her? Are you willing to change or will she? will you end up hating her cos she's constantly wreaking your head? Could you see yourself in the same situation in 12 months Only you can really tell. My advice is this. Focus on the first feeling you get before and when you see her after this holiday. Understand what that is and it will guide you.
Decided I like her enough so prepared to talk about this tomorrow and see what comes of it I'll obviously keep all that in mind Already have eased off on those a bit to make room for her, not completely because that's not healthy but I've been prepared to skip a session to have a day out or whatever when I'd normally be doing those Depends on the ultimate issues in the end, there's a couple of things I ain't prepared to budge on which I think is fair, see what she says Maybe if one or both of us feel able to accept some slight changes, I already feel like this actually due to pulling my interests in slightly, then there won't be any resentment or anything and it won't be like this once it's all on the table and been talked through Cheers for the advice though man
All I can say is I can recall the butterflies waiting to meet my missus on a date etc and I can say for sure I smile more when she comes home from anywhere like that. The main thing is i suppose I would happily send her off with a smack on the behind if she's off with here sisters etc and never think she's ever going to do anything. I love my time alone but always am happy when thinking she's on her way back (and i have cleaned up the evidence or being a slob)
Lighten up mate, go with the flow a bit more and see where it takes you. No need to have 'red lines' as if it's some form of negotiation, just enjoy her company, keep her well sorted out , show her plenty of respect, splash a bit of cash now and then, and see if it flourishes or not. If it's right you just know, the trust issues will disappear and you'll just enjoy each others company without the 'is she isn't she, 'does he doesn't he' crap. But to get there you have to be open and to truly open up you leave yourself vulnerable, that's the way it is.
I'd start a thread if I were you 'Ask Tobes' - serious answers to serious questions and trivial answers to trivial questions and you decide which is which
