The RIP Thread

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Last Thursday we lost one of our 2 cats (17) and then on Fri I found out via Facebook that a former work colleague and good friend had passed away aged 40 that morning both from that b’stard cancer, he’d been fighting it for 3 years, started of in his throat, was in remission then it came back in his Lymph nodes and I last spoke with him the week before and he told me it had spread to his heart lining, he lasted a week I F*CKING HATE CANCER :emoticon-0106-cryin :emoticon-0106-cryin :emoticon-0106-cryin
 
Thorpe was a great batsman, always recall that innings he played in Pakistan that finished in almost total darkness, (way before floodlights were installed) in the days when umpires asked the batsman if they wanted to continue...... he hit the winning runs and then said afterwards that playing club cricket gave him the confidence to carry on as a lot of those games finished in total darkness.... a sad loss to one of the good guys....
 
France Under-18 international Medhi Narjissi is missing after being "swept away by a wave" while swimming in the sea off Cape Town, the French Rugby Federation said.

The FFR said the incident took place during a recovery session with other players in South Africa on Wednesday, and that search teams were immediately dispatched.

Two sea rescue boats and a helicopter were involved but did not find the 17-year-old, who has recently signed for Toulouse.

The search continued on Thursday as National Sea Rescue Institute spokesman Craig Lambinon said strong rip currents could have swept Narjissi into the surf zone and out to sea.

Narjissi is a member of the France squad preparing to participate in a five-nation tournament from Monday, also involving England, Ireland and Georgia.

South African rugby leaders sent condolences to the FFR and the player's family, who were expected to arrive in South Africa later on Thursday.

"We extend our deepest condolences to the family and the French rugby community for the tragic loss of Medhi," said Mark Alexander, president of the South African Rugby Union.

"We cannot begin to comprehend the sorrow the family must be feeling at this moment. Please know that the entire rugby fraternity stands with you in mourning the loss of Medhi.

"This devastating news has been felt deeply across the rugby community here in South Africa and around the world."

RIP <rose>
 
Obituary: Graham Thorpe, 1969-2024


By John Etheridge, Cricket correspondent

GRAHAM THORPE, who has died aged 55, was England’s best batsman between the end of David Gower’s career and the start of Kevin Pietersen’s.

Indeed, many reckon he was at least as good as either Gower or Pietersen.

Thorpe was a nuggety left-hander who could attack or defend, display a carefree approach or iron-willed patience.

He was good against fast bowling and an absolute master facing spin.

Thorpe was one of the first names on any England team sheet for more than a decade in the 1990s and 2000s.

Thorpe later became a well-regarded coach in both England and Australia and is the man credited as the first to spot the potential of Joe Root.

He had a huge influence on Ben Stokes’ batting, especially against spin.

His innings of 113 not out against Sri Lanka in Colombo in 2001 was one of the finest ever played for England.

It is rarely mentioned alongside the barnstorming efforts of Stokes or Ian Botham but, make no mistake, it was an all-time heroic performance in extreme heat against top-class spin.

Thorpe scored 32 not out in the second innings (out of 74-6) as England won by four wickets.

He was so shattered that he missed the team party that evening.

Thorpe was born in Farnham, Surrey, and the story goes that he switched to left-handed because the legside boundary in his back garden was shorter that side.

He was good enough at football to play for England age-group teams but opted for cricket.

He played for Surrey, England A and, in 1993, scored an Ashes century on his Test debut against Australia at Trent Bridge.

He made another brilliant century – 138 – against the Aussies at Edgbaston in 1997.

He and Nasser Hussain put on 288 for the fourth wicket and England won by nine wickets.

It was an almost unique match of England domination in an era of ritual hammerings by the old enemy.

Thorpe’s highest Test score was a blazing 200 not out from just 231 balls against New Zealand in Christchurch in 2002.

It was eclipsed by Nathan Astle’s brutal 222 from 168 deliveries in the same match but England still won comfortably.

In another famous win, Thorpe scored 64 not out as England beat Pakistan in Karachi in 2000 by six wickets.

It was virtually dark at the end and there were no floodlights.

Thorpe’s final Test innings was 66 not out against Bangladesh in 2005 but England decided to drop him to accommodate the recently-qualified Pietersen.

So Thorpe took no part in the greatest Test series of all time against Australia that summer.

He scored 16 centuries in exactly 100 Tests with an average of 44.66.

Thorpe moved into coaching, working in Australia for New South Wales, where his charges included youngsters called David Warner and Steve Smith.

He was England’s lead batting coach for several years and an assistant-coach on the Ashes tour of 2021-22.

Away from the pitch, Thorpe’s first marriage broke down very publicly and he missed some cricket as a result. He had two children.

Thorpe could be maudlin and would sometimes spend hours telling people about his problems.

He found love again and married Amanda and she became a regular when he toured as part of England’s coaching team.

He was his own man – he was fined £1,000 for refusing to attend an official function during the 1999 World Cup, for example – but I liked him a lot.

He was open, honest and with a self-deprecating humour.

After England’s defeat in the Fifth Test in Hobart, Thorpe lit a cigar while drinking indoors with players from both teams.

The police were called and he filmed their arrival on his ‘phone, providing a commentary. Within hours, the footage went public.

Thorpe lost his job after England’s 0-4 defeat in that series but, within weeks, he was hired to become head coach of Afghanistan.

He never took up that position, however, and in May of 2022, the PCA put out a statement revealing that Thorpe was “seriously ill” in hospital.

He was not seen again in cricket circles after that although some of his former team-mates tried to keep in touch.

The cricket world will be deeply shocked and saddened by his passing.
Cricket legend Graham Thorpe’s wife Amanda has revealed the former England international took his own life.

Thorpe passed away on August 5 aged 55 leaving behind his devastated wife and two daughters.

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Speaking to The Times, Mrs Thorpe revealed that the cricketer had struggled with anxiety and depression for years.
 
Cricket legend Graham Thorpe’s wife Amanda has revealed the former England international took his own life.

Thorpe passed away on August 5 aged 55 leaving behind his devastated wife and two daughters.

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Speaking to The Times, Mrs Thorpe revealed that the cricketer had struggled with anxiety and depression for years.

l really struggle with people who choose to do this. Yes, l know it’s called a sickness but my heart goes out to those who are left behind, especially the children. What do you tell them that they can understand? I don’t have any answers and feel they have been cheated.
Just my thoughts on a very sad situation.
 
Cricket legend Graham Thorpe’s wife Amanda has revealed the former England international took his own life.

Thorpe passed away on August 5 aged 55 leaving behind his devastated wife and two daughters.

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Speaking to The Times, Mrs Thorpe revealed that the cricketer had struggled with anxiety and depression for years.
Poor bastard, it's tragic when anyone feels there's no other option but to end things. Manic depression is a very serious illness, that not enough people fully grasp. Thoughts are with Graham's family
 
Poor bastard, it's tragic when anyone feels there's no other option but to end things. Manic depression is a very serious illness, that not enough people fully grasp. Thoughts are with Graham's family
Graham Thorpe died after being hit by a train close to his home.….

Awful, tragic ….. as you say, poor bastard …..

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