Wasn't looking to bring the 'where are they going to' element into the equation. I was simply interested in your statement that people are choosing to leave, and (presumably) not being forced out due to the danger of living in a war zone. You didn't seem to make any distinction between those two very different cases, and seem to be suggesting that the only time we need to bother about helping refugees from a war zone is if the war happens right next door in France.
It's a big old world, mate, and personally I can't just choose to switch off compassion simply because they are further than the nearest border.
There's usually a choice about leaving, except in cases of ethnic cleansing such as we are seeing with the Rohingya Muslims in Burma. Londoners didn't vacate the city during the Blitz, or Germans Berlin. Where there is a more pressing need to find safety, refugees seeking asylum must do so in the first country they reach, except in exceptional circumstances. That's the ECJ ruling. That's why I applied the proximity test.