The Danger of Assumptions

Bon

I have had experience of PMs with Piskie. The argument simply continues. There is no acceptance of the other side's story. Some wives when in the company of their divorce lawyers are easier to talk to. No, I have not been there. Just saying you understand.

Jayram should be allowed to give his side of the story here. The drama is being played out here and he was banned from here so let him have his say here. We need some transparency on the board.

 

If people feel they are being abused they should contact the mods via a PM

 

In that thread and offered as a way to go forward, I expressed to Piskie my own recent conflict with Mr HF. It was all my fault. I jumped in on a post raised by a Spurs fan that he had been troubling them and jumped in without looking at that thread. I shouldn't have. It was nothing to do with me and more than anything it was raised because I had previous been not too well disposed towards HF. I reached him by PM to tender my apologies and believe we have moved forward. Piskie chose to ignore what I said in my post ( on page 10 ). It is of no interest to him. Putting forward his view and having the final word is.

Nothing wil change here until there is change in the place.

Sound familiar?

 

Some people have complained that Jayram was out of order. After the Mods decided he was out of order, they asked him to stop being out of order. He said no. Subsequently, after attempts to bring him back into order, he's been banned. Nor permanently, but for a single week. He'll be back.

Those people who are complaining that they don't use PM's when they receive personal abuse, are missing a trick - the system is there to prevent personal abuse happening continuously.

Hopefully, after the week is up, Jayram will be back, and everything will settle down into constructive debate.

 

Sorry but i don't think there should be abuse on a forum. However, an open debate is more than welcome. I don't belong on either camp but i have seen abuse hurled from both side.

 

Bonstar, I got a message from Jayram elsewhere, he refuses to engage in dialogue with PISKIE but responded without derision to SJW19, apparently

 

And another thing Bonstar - and people seem to miss the point, Jayram doesn't abuse people. If you give him abuse he will give it back, it is only fair. But the those who abuse him are probably the ones that went crying to the mods to complain. If you ban Jayram you MUST ban those who abuse him too !! Just because he takes it like a man and doesn't complain that doesn't give others the right to take advantage. They should man up or STFU

There is NOTHING in Jayram's posts or threads that is offensive and worthy of making a complaint about, nothing at all !!

The problem is people are too stupid/thick/ignorant to argue with Jayram and they get all upset, the poor diddums.

 

This.

 

Right I am about to lift the ban on jayram in the hope that everyone will now calm down and get on with all things Arsenal.

 

Can I complain about this decision?

 

MAGIC ----STOP IT !!!

NO - SERIOUSLY thank you.

Jayram -if you read this - FOR GOD'S SAKE cool it.

Several of us have put our necks on the block to try to give you access again.
Pause - take a deep breath - DON'T respond to the obvious wind-ups you will get.
Try to ignore the posts that get through to you - I also try but often fail.

 

Thank you Cypruss

PS - pressmen waiting outside for your official announcement.

 

Now that we are all sweetness and light - how many will we score against Vanilla?.

 

Sorry...

 

....giggle.....

 

Cyprus ... kudos

 

Oh ffs, deleting my comments now as well?

 

If you carry on posting childish comments on the board i will delete them.

 

You are SO butch when aroused Cym - I bet all the girls say so.

 

Ewe'd better believe it