swinging

I have extensive experience in this field after living for many years on the continent. No one has actually mentioned the down side of this yet. i.e. you don't get many young swingers - they tend to be middle-aged. If you find wrinkled skin, a bit of a gut, puffy flaps or grey pubes a sexual turn-off then this probably isn't for you.

Or you could turn the ****ing lights off.