It's not about massive age gaps in relationships for me, but I do not think a 17 year old and a 61 year old is appropriate, even if legal. All I see is people keep making excuses for certain behaviours, that in turn then condones it in my view, which then leads to deeper issues. High celebrity ****s and I repeat I'm not suggesting the person in question is one, get away with what they do, because of these certain behaviours being seen as acceptable, that then puts people in fear of reporting behaviours. We've now had two high profile presenters one ITV, one BBC, challenged on these behaviours, even if not challenged in an appropriate manner, both presenters earned the sort of money most people can only dream of, that puts them in a position of power, even authority, they are the representative faces of our media - so this isn't Joe Bloggs off the street, this is two people that have to uphold certain (family) values in my opinion, they are the examples to some (not me). If both presenters did engage in those sort of behaviours, being attracted to younger men, then I find that unacceptable, much as Saudi Arabia find homosexuality unacceptable. And before anyone asks, I don't believe it should happen in the music and film industry either, we've already seen that abuse of power in Hollywood, because things became normalised. I have no problem with age gaps, but I do feel a tad uncomfortable with a 44 year age gap of a high profile person, with lots of money.