Everything goes over my head couldn't give a **** about nowt got it from my mam been living in a caravan for 6 months while i am doing this house up our lass is bouncing but i just pretend I am on holiday f ucking magic.
I used to be quite chilled in my 20s but my temperment has changed alot over the last 10 years to the point where im seriously thinking of having anger managment treatment. The slightest thing can just piss me of and make me see Red. Particullary ignorant self centred bastards.
Do it mate, it's free for the group classes, I did it, it was ****ing good fun and it sorted me out. Had some right good laughs at some of the divs in my group man, angry little men spewing constantly over nowt, made me realise I wasn't that bad after all. One time a bloke turned up with a broken wrist after punching a lamp post. Thick bastard
One guy put everything in perspective for me, he was angry because he couldn't do things he could used to do, because he had MS and it had started to affect his hands. Everybody gets angry for different reasons mate but the way of dealing with it is often the same thought and behavioural pattern. I've not snapped in months to the best of my recollection, it used to be a daily thing.
I get irritated by f uck all why do people let things bother them tomorrow comes whatever you f ucking do.
My wife has MS and apart from the trials and tribulations that come with it, I couldn't be any more laid back.
I have a very long fuse and it takes a lot to get me riled. When it does go it goes big time though..
It's an interesting point, I've never considered my temper as a cornerstone of my personality but in many ways it is. Something for me to brood on that.
I sometimes wonder about primal scream therapy, not taking a class but just going off somewhere and shouting at the top of my lungs until I've got nothing left. Supposedly it's not good in the long run because you get dependent on it but it's surely better than bottling it up and wanting to smash someone's face in for not very much.
I think it's a massive part. I think it's why ou attract a certain sort of lass, pals, the lot. People can see your persona.
I think you're spot on mate, I've never really seen it as anything other than a negative to be suppressed when appropriate but there's actually a lot more depth to it. Like I say I'll give it some thought, it's intriguing to me as a concept.
I run my whole life on instinct mate, and being able to see what people are is a massive part of that.
I don't get angry easily, very calm relaxed person in general, god knows i've had enough reasons in my personal life to go on a shooting spree, but I tend to be very pragmatic about things. Same as my late dad.
