It just died! I lost the initial site after I split with my ex. The hosting package was in my name but I didn't realise the domain name was still registered to him. The domain name expired and he refused to sign it over to me, so I lost the whole site. I did start it up again on a new domain name, but it never really got going. There were a couple of incidents which caused people to leave and it got to a point where I was begrudging paying for it just spend my time deleting crap and sorting squabbles out. I passed it onto a man who ran it for a bit, but he never did any maintenance on the server. Eventually it just ground to a halt and died due to the lack of work on it.