im not solely paying for the holiday myself, we both are. and i'll give you the ring but im payin for **** all else i'll tell you that now how on earth did you think i was a wise one
True say. with a name like Ian Beale and weddings On a serious note though, sit down and talk it through if you can. If you cant Me and the Mrs have been married 18 years. I did the whole asked her mum etc (dad wasnae around) but she knew all about it We didn do the typical 'done thing'. WE decided what was what. The dress etc was what she wanted. The reception was in an Italia place we booked for one lot and an Indian place for another lot. Basically 2 receptions Its like getting presents , say xmas. Eid for us. We put money aside and whatever is in the pot we go out together and blow it. Basically if we want a new TV and have £5 in the pot. we buy the latest model etc. Because that money is for blowing