Time, patience (which I have little) and lots of practise or as my tutor once said, always make sure you have a guitar in your home.
I learn in chunks, so breaking songs down into stages. A lot of what a guitarist does is just finger memory, so I do repetition of those chunks, once my fingers remember where to be on the first stage, then and only then, do I move to the second chunk and so on.
I don't even learn those chunks in sequence, I imagine it like a patchwork quilt, learn the bits I like and leave the harder parts until last, and eventually stitch it all together.
If I try something, if I don't like, be straight with yourself and acknowledge to avoid those types of music, my pet hate is strumming, it's boring, fair enough, learn blues, rifs, finger plucking, note picking, whatever as long has you enjoy what you choose.
It's about finding your style, how the guitar best works for you, take Youtube as an example, pick a song to learn, now look at every video where tutors teach you that song, they are all different right, everyone one of them, really? Yup! Now find the one that reflects you.
Don't over complicate it, if you only pick E A B C E to start with, it's a start....
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