Ive discussed it loads, friends, family, psychiatrists etc In my late 20's I had to get counselling again as I was getting drunk and being really pissed off. It affected relationships with friends family etc, my mum was upset but anyhow, my point is while talking to friends and professionals that didnt help with me as I have discussed whenever I needed to with those who know me Talking helps to some degree, but no one can ever change whats happened It not just psychological, I developed Psoriasis and severe ocd which both still affects me now but no where near as bad as it was (OCD - Psoriasis is still pretty bad but that flares up and then gets better in stages). Paranoia as well, I can get severly paranoid if I cant remember when Ive drunk to much or whatever. Trust when ever Ive entred new relationships. Also a short fuse if I start talking or thinking about it to much so im just going to leave now
Here we go again. I have never said anything to the contrary. For someone who is constantly asking people to re-read your comments, when they disagree with you, this shows a disturbing lack of reading comprehension on your part. My post was clearly not just about rape. You have singularly misunderstood both my point and Dawkins's. Not really. I agree people will respond to things in different ways, but he stated in his example (if you can find it) that all the boys who experienced the touching by the priest, in his reminisces, felt more sorry for the sad life of the priest than anything else. And, whether you think that's wrong or not is neither here nor there. Once again, Sisu, you're alienating people with your bombastic posting, straw-man attacks on others' posts and generally accusing fellow reds of saying things they didn't, and would never, say. I'll bid you adieu, then, as I know once you're in defensive mode there's no reasoning with you. Agree to disagree.
I was in 2 minds but we're all faceless and nothing to be ashamed of Anyway, Im off to the pub (virtual) for a pint
I am all for a full and fair discussion on both topics - and with all parties that express an interest no matter what their philosophy etc. Neither matter should be treated as taboo.
This is not the first time you said here we go again, if I misinterpreted what you said, how do you expect me to read the rest of your post in a positive light f**o? I know what you are referring to in your superior pretentious way as well, Opaque, of which I after some minutes said you were totally correct, so, being wrong and misinterpretation, how is that "here we go again" this being the 2nd time you've said it to me and in fact bares no relevance to the discussion you are referring to. There is no mild rape and no mild *****philia, end of. What you would rather is irrelevant, it is the rapist who decides it and the victim gets to decide how traumatic it was.
This I agree with. You could have dropped the rest. As for my 'superior pretentious way' . . . pot and kettle, mate.
f** me that's a dose!, goes to show how it can affect you, the physical aspect clears in no time the mental issues persist for a long long time. Ditto on the relationships, till I met this lady and ditto on the short fuse, I can go off like a nuke. Also anxiety and panic attacks. But f** me I'm a good dad I have a serious problem with authority too, though I eventually thought I would put that down to most authority I have experienced as completely incompetent, so that may not be my issue actually. The worst thing about the panic attacks are is that, I will be fine, no stress at all, nothing, they come out of nowhere and I can't breathe, obviously it's somewhere in my head the commotion is but I am not consciously aware of it.
FYI, anything I've said in the last few posts is not a reason for people to not give me s**t, you are all c**ts.
Always good to belong. mind you, how would you know you are not a **** if you don't have ****s to judge by, I am your barometer.
I know I'm definitely a ****. People call me it all the time. Last night I had 6 different people calling me a ****. Although that was because I didn't miss a single dart at a double, in the pub, and beat them all soundly. #poorlosersbutimstillacunt
I'd propose the 'Beiber' as the unit of ****ishness. I'd say me and Sisu have oscillated around .2-.4 Biebers on the ****ish scale. 1 Bieber being a total ****, and anything more being almost unimaginable.
Blimey thats a good dose as well mate No panic attacks, closest I get is I can feel really nervous about going out but I think thats down to how much I drink and how much of a **** I'll be The OCD is the norm, checking doors etc but also obsessive thinking. I think far to much (it doesnt come across on here though lol) to myself and some times have really dark thoughts but they havent bothered me for a few months. Dont know if its all related! I had a spell of just obsessive thinking, just couldnt get things out of my head, nearly destroyed our wedding (in the run up to it). LuckILY Mrs Dr Says loves me which was proven with how much **** I caused in the run up Again, dont know if its all connected! Who knows, and who cares! As long as you have good family and friends you will always be okay Anyhow, im not really a psychopath honest
