You've missed out the part where I said 'if you didn't want to get involved you didn't ' 'no difference nowadays'...Are you just dissecting the post and tailoring it to suit your narrative?
Read my post where I mention our duty in life to protect our children...
How is that relevant? You're right, I did miss it out because it goes without saying if you don't want to get involved you don't, to suggest it is "part and parcel of the game" implies that it's normal, when it won't ever be.
I read what you put about protecting our children, I don't have a "narrative", I was simply stating that it isn't normal and furthermore, if it does become so, my children won't get to go until they're old enough to decide for themselves.