Jamie Varley

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Come on marra, do you really think that there is more of a risk with gay couples than straight couples ? Where’s the statistics to back that up? Love is love regardless of sexuality, I said it earlier the system is to blame. Look into the case, that poor bairn was let down massively by the system.
I don't think he can look past his own crippling homophobia, possibly because he's spent years in denial.
 
My beliefs marra, if you cannot handle it ignore it. Name calling is a tad ...
So you think people can publicly proffer their opinions, even when they are baseless and discriminatory? That's the world we live in now is it? Say what we like because we're entitled to our beliefs?
 
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My beliefs marra, if you cannot handle it ignore it. Name calling is a tad ...

What are your beliefs? I'm curious and think it would help me understand you better if you were able to spell it out.

My beliefs are that potentially any man can foster a child. However we know some men are violent towards children so there are protection measures in place to vet all men before becoming foster carers. In this case, the protection system failed and is accountable to blame for putting the child in that situation.

For the purposes of fathering a foster child, both straight and gay men are identical in that they want to provide a child with a loving home. Their sexual orientation is irrelevant as I cannot see any reason why a gay man can't provide the same level of care as a straight man.

What is it about gay man that you think makes them unsuitable as foster carers?
 
What are your beliefs? I'm curious and think it would help me understand you better if you were able to spell it out.

My beliefs are that potentially any man can foster a child. However we know some men are violent towards children so there are protection measures in place to vet all men before becoming foster carers. In this case, the protection system failed and is accountable to blame for putting the child in that situation.

For the purposes of fathering a foster child, both straight and gay men are identical in that they want to provide a child with a loving home. Their sexual orientation is irrelevant as I cannot see any reason why a gay man can't provide the same level of care as a straight man.

What is it about gay man that you think makes them unsuitable as foster carers?

I can't answer for him obviously and he isn't obligated to offer answers on a football forum, but I would be somewhat sympathetic to the idea that males without females shouldn't be able to foster children. Notice I didn't offer this opinion during the thread but will offer it now seeing as the discussion has moved in this direction, I personally feel women are far superior care givers for children, men can sometimes get by but they'll never be able to replicate a mother figure in my opinion, this goes for gay and straight men. I suspect some will hate that but, it's how I feel about it.
 
What are your beliefs? I'm curious and think it would help me understand you better if you were able to spell it out.

My beliefs are that potentially any man can foster a child. However we know some men are violent towards children so there are protection measures in place to vet all men before becoming foster carers. In this case, the protection system failed and is accountable to blame for putting the child in that situation.

For the purposes of fathering a foster child, both straight and gay men are identical in that they want to provide a child with a loving home. Their sexual orientation is irrelevant as I cannot see any reason why a gay man can't provide the same level of care as a straight man.

What is it about gay man that you think makes them unsuitable as foster carers?
Would it be okay for 2 heterosexual men to adopt a child?