Oh all of these too. I think its because I like strategy/tactics. It could all end up flat on its face but I'm finding it interesting to watch and develop.
I get what you mean, and if I were neutral I'd agree, but stronger emotions always seem to take over for me!
Or as the drunken Frenchman said when a train stopped in a siding and he opened the door and fell onto the tracks “ C’est magnifique, mais n’est pas le gare.”
... or as the English visitor said on visiting a picturesque village in Spain: "Me gustan las casas viejas pero no me gustan los novios"