Spaffing!
I've worked continuously since 1984 and never had a day off sick (was on gardening leave during heart op and convalescence - op July 2017 - working again by beginning of Oct) - longest time I've had off was from Nov last year to June this - first 2 months needed the break tbf - thereafter looking for most suitable new role - we survived because I took a lump sum from one of my pensions- should probably have signed on tbh but never have..
I don't cry about much - by this time next year will have seen all 3 girls through Uni - they get minimal Government finance because of my salary so I kop for the rent difference and subsistence (eldest 2 are working now) - by another Government quirk I'm paying through the nose - if our household income was 50:50 with the missus rather than all from me our daughters would get full Government finance - tell me how that is fair?
Everything we have, or have ever had (including holidays, cars etc), has been earned, apart from a modest amount from my old girl that helped with the deposit on this place ... as I said before, will have paid off 2 mortgages in my lifetime...
So I don't cry ... and I don't spaff ... but I do dislike inequality and rules and regulations in a system that purposefully, and unfairly, favours the rich - particularly those with inherited wealth - people who have never had to worry about meeting next months outgoings...
I'm no martyr ... just never had the luxury to not work ... yet.