I'll try in answer you points in my own inelegant way.
Firstly, I wouldn't shoot you down for offering an opinion in an eloquent and polite manner. By questioning what the club is doing and whether it is the correct course how is that 'bed wetting' or not 'being loyal'? It is a legitimate question and after all you are looking for poster's opinions be they for or agin you. That is fair enough.
I think the club don't really understand the big physiological effect that selling our best players every year has on the fans at all, what's more, despite all the gum flapping from certain representatives of the club I don't think they are overly bothered - they have a plan and they are sticking to it regardless, even if it looked like it was starting to go wrong....
In this modern age I'm not surprised you find it hard to relate to the team. When you have a 17 year old who has come up through the system, breaks through into the first team and the first thing he wants to do is leave the club what are supposed to think? When he signed on Tadic said this was a good club to come to because you can move to a bigger club, or something like that for Christssake! Whatever anyone at the club says and whatever the more positive fans say no other club in the Premiership is looked upon as a selling club as much as we are. We have made that bed and now we have to lie in it.
I guess it looks like this doesn't happen to other clubs but it does, I think we just seemed to have more publicity. Villa and Swansea have lost their best players recently and Everton have been raided, you forgot fan-favourite Fellaini who couldn't wait to go to Man United and we ourselves have raided Feyenoord and Celtic,
Having ranted the above, I believe the club are surviving on good will at the moment, have a crap season this season then sell Mane and Wanyama next season and see how much the fans believe Les.
Do not idolise or love any player, that's my advice. Personally whenever I see a Saints player interview or Les spouting off I just don't believe anything I hear. I'm still waiting for Clyne and Toby to play this season - after all weren't we in a good place with regards to them?
I find massively frustrating that players and back room staff don't give a toss about the supporters but that is the way it is and will always will be. As long as there is a club most of us will be here taken for granted. They only way to really make an impact is for one weekend no one in the country to turn up at any game - and that is never going to happen.
After reading the above I think I've gone mad but I'm going to leave what I wrote as it was a stream of conciousness and I meant it when I wrote it.
I'm off to lie down...