I'm not. I'm perfectly happy to deal with any differing view But be clear, Gazidis hasn't said anything about not aiming for Europe, being competitive or setting sights low. That was your interpretation of it
We can go on about this till the cows come home. I'm happy that you are comforted by your own thoughts as I hope you'll be delighted that I offer mine too.
That's what we need on the pitch - lots of man hugs and tongues, then when the ref has finished doing that, our players can fondle one another.