I never passed comment on Rodgers morals, if that was aimed at me btw. Everyone's different and everyone needs and wants different things out of life. I wouldn't moralise about anyone seeing a married woman, same as I wouldn't in reverse, as you've not walked in their shoes and you don't know the detail of their lives. Each to their own. What I do know is that people add to much emotion to the sexual act. People like sex, and people seek it if they're not getting enough at home.
It's easy to be glib (as I obviously am ), if I was him I'd not touch it with a ****ing bargepole in reality btw, lol.
Pretty much what I was getting at. We all think it's funny on a forum to say bang it but in reality I don't think many of us (that are already involved or targeting someone that is married) would actually do it. Just thought I'd pass my serious thoughts on it last night as it often comes across that RHC takes far too much advice from this board PS...I understand why you thought i meant you with me using "smash it" it
Been with my wife for 15 years and have never been near another woman and never would do mate, as I love her to bits. I was a lad back in the day and I can't say I had the same moral code and mindset when I was in previous relationships, but when you meet 'the one' things change imo.
28 years today and the same. Can never understand blokes who risk their marriage, and family life, for a quick shag. If a relationship is not working then get a divorce/split up and move on amicably. These blokes/women who have affairs then when they are caught profess their love for their other half amaze me, if you loved them so much what are you doing bonking around elsewhere. As my Dad always says "a true man thinks with his big head, not his little one"
@Tobes @Garlic Bread @moreinjuredthanowen Fair enough and good on you, but what about if you weren't involved and a female that you knew was married showed you some attention?
By married i am presuming you mean attached significantly... not separated or some other such situation. I'd say no.... but come on! this is me you are talking about... woman showing interest.... are you on what van gaal's been taking?
It'd depend on the person and the circumstances mate. If the bloke was a mate and he was sound, then not a chance. If he was a complete **** or was a rake himself, then maybe so. However, I used to generally swerve those kind of situations as they could get messy, but I'd be lying if I said I'd never done it.
I have had situations since I have been married were the option was made very available, (at conferences, when overnight accommodation was involved), and have always not taken up the offer. I have on several occasions just said "if only we had met before" and held up my wedding ring finger, which normally sends the message without being offensive. I used to work with a bloke who was married with three young kids and used to take his wedding ring off before he arrived at such events to "go on the pull" as he always put it. Within a couple of years he was whinging that his wife had thrown him out and he only saw his kids every other weekend, and then she had found someone else (after they were divorced). When it was pointed out to him he had cheated on her many times he used to loose his rag. Complete arse! When I was single I never touched married women as it was to messy, especially if they had kids.
I think he's talking about Nick. Mine us the unit, but I don't really bother in that direction any longer.
