If you're referring to the child sex abuse stuff (of which he was the victim, not the perpetrator), he has written very intelligently and candidly on that subject, for which he certainly has my respect. An example: http://bcm666.blogspot.co.uk/2013/11/david-camerons-grand-plan-is-actually_18.html Not the work of a typical 'lad', I would contend.
I was at the Palace game on Saturday and their cheerleaders came out for the half time entertainment. All very healthy and coordinated young ladies and behind me I heard a voice shouting "Get your tits out for the lads" on repeat. I turned round and to my surprise the voice came from a man who must have been well into his 60s. I'm sure in his mind it was nothing more than laddish banter and no harm meant, but it made me cringe for a man who should know better