"you are very different now since you played for England, you never used to be like this" Southamptons own version of the comment. Sounds more like an observation to me than an insult.
Bring in video refereeing because then Lallana wouldn't have questioned the referee's poor decision and the penalty would have been given. Personally, I think that players shouldn't be allowed to talk to officials anyway. The Captain maybe?
Yeh, it's Lallana himself that draws the negative inference. Totally agree. Ulster v Munster last night, the Ireland captain was sin binned for talking to the referee too much + niggling offences (he's not Munster's captain).