I’ve had a few loons like. But just the usual trash the house, fish behind radiators, scrawling **** on the walls, nicking the knobs off the hob was a good one, cutting up my clothes, nicking all my furniture, that kind of shizzle. The worst one, was a nutter who didn’t give me the key back, and like a dickhead I didn’t change the locks. Went away for the weekend, came back on the Sunday and my drive was like a ****ing river She’d got someone to come round and loosen a pipe in the loft, the entire house was flooded, ceilings, kitchen, floors, carpets, furniture the lot, all ****ed.
Hello lads, some stuff has got to disappear, I'm sure you lads will trust me enough to not bother asking why, anyone think I'm being big brother, pm me
One bird I finished with when I was working for Virgin Media, rang up my boss and told him I’d had my fingers in the till and I’d stolen thousands from the company since I’d been working there. I was coaching on a call centre floor. She was thick as ****.
Best argument I had was with my ex’s mother, as I was packing my bag to leave she was telling me her son was a better man than I’ll ever be, and I told her “He puts his suit on every morning brushes his teeth and his hair and drives to his mates house, because he got fired SIX MONTHS AGO” She started hitting me round the back of the head as I was walking down the stairs on my way out. Laughed all the way home.
Don’t think I’ve ever had a serious argument with my Mrs tbh, she’s chilled as ****. We bicker about who’s turn it is to do stuff and why she’s bought so much ****e, but nowt major. Only time I can think of her flipping was when I met up with mates at V Festival and I come back about 6 hours later to a soaked sleeping bag in the porch part of the tent, didn’t care tbh I’d been heavy on the beak watching The Prodigy.
Think the only times Mrs Hoops was seriously pissed at me is when she decided the family needed a dog, dogs are ok and all that but not for me. By the time she got back from work that evening we had a cat. A couple of years later she suggested we get a dog to live alongside the cat, by the time she got home we then had another two cats.
I very rarely argue with mine tbh done all that **** with the last one who was mad as **** so decided to bin off the crazy ones after that. We talk to each other like **** quite often but that's just our bantz. Can't say I've ever wanted to kill her yet so all good here. Soz for your troubles mate, but maybe if you called her a stupid bitch more regularly like me you wouldn't be in the dog house.
Have never been a big arguer to be honest. Except when I had a massive argument in a night club with an ex about a year ago, we made a right scene but it wasn't interesting, didn't end up pissing on her. I'm actually amazed listening to these stories, my girl is so ****ing chill.
Coughed to a couple of minor infringments last night while she was in a bad mood, got them out of the way while she was pissed off anyway.
There's an interesting word called Gaslighting in Psychology, it's about how people control people. I've posted something that outligns the basics of it. You probably also see a lot of these tecniques used on politic threads! https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/...verywhere/201701/11-warning-signs-gaslighting Edit: Ffs Spurly you edited your post, now my comment don't match it haha
@Saffy this is often a tecnique aimed at you and me, especially when 'meds' are thrown at us constantly... 10. They tell you or others that you are crazy. This is one of the most effective tools of the gaslighter, because it's dismissive. The gaslighter knows if they question your sanity, people will not believe you when you tell them the gaslighter is abusive or out-of-control. It's a master technique
