Taff, Thanks for your response. I will now have my say, I know there are Cardiff posters who believe I had the ban coming, and others who think it's okay to question your sex and call you old beano, I alas don't. For someone to question if I was a woman or has a sex change I find not only unwarranted but deeply offensive, there some on there who thinks it's funny and only banter but I do not and as these offensive words were aimed at me I think that only I can know the offense they caused. At the time there was a banter thread maybe if they were on there I might have thought differently but I doubt it and if anyone else posts these accusations I will report them. If you still think it's only banter then it only shows you up as what you are. I hope this will be the end of this, I will not debate this further.
Gransha, So you then decide to label me as what exactly with the comments and I quote "If you still think it's only banter then it only shows you up as what you are."
Taff, That was not aimed at you, per say only the 1st line was. The rest of the post was for all posters. I've already said I will not debate this but as you are a mod, I've done it this once. I was saying to all posters if they think it's ok to question someone if they had a sex change, then I think they have a worse problem than me. I HOPE THIS WILL BE THE END OF THIS. P.S. EDIT I don't think that anyone on this board knows me or my family circumstance, so to judge my ability to question offensive posts is in itself offensive.
I think we all need to put this to bed. It's rumbled on to the detriment of this board for long enough. Nice to see you back DJ. Mods - that's a very fair re-appraisal of the forum rules guys - well done. This forum is free and open to posters of all clubs who shouldn't be burdened (threatened?) with these conditions when they post here. It's so unfortunate that it became necessary to lay these principles down because of the action of a few from a single club. Thank goodness that most club forums are homes to a majority of fair minded posters, but some are dominated by a minority who are not. Showing respect for moderators of a particular board should be high on the priority list of mods from other boards. Visitor posts on here recently show that it can all too often be a one way street.