I agree. But life in real life is not like life on the football pitch Tash. It doesn't matter if you get booted around the pitch, get up and let your football do the talking. El-Abhd is a gritty Championship player who is never going to be a Premiership footballer, he has no talent, so going around kicking people is about all the enjoyment he get's out of football. You are talking as if this is Sunday League, Tash, it's not just the case of "this bloke has been niggling me all game, I'm going to do him, but that's ok because the FA will understand cos he's a twat". The FA doesn't work like that I'm afraid, and as far as I'm concerned, Cabaye was in the wrong 100%, regardless of how much the other bloke wound him up. He's playing for a team currently on course for Europe, already missing three of it's key players with some big games coming up, and he goes and lashes out like that. He should have known better, but sadly, I have to admit Cabaye is a dirty player, and he can give it but can't take it. There is no call for trying to kick someone on a football pitch, that's what's annoyed me.