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moreinjuredthanowen said:
did you leave her stewing for a while during that day of nothing before ringing?

she might have the hump you did that

basically you both went to bed after argument and left it.

she was prob in tears all night eating ice-cream watching soppy movies... i've seen this in the movies.


TBH my own missus gives me the silent treatment over ****e. If she gets thick i just go fine ok .. you've ruin the day now so lets get home and i let her stew on it for 3 days and she eventually gets over it.

Its rare enough like but if she can't open her gob and correct me or whatever thats her issue. nobody's perfect like... thats her way, i understand it and don't get that annoyed with her.

she ruined star wars movie before christmas cos she said she didn't even want to go and it was stupid when trying to get out of the house cos nobody would be an adult and actually babysit even though they promised.

I got thick for about 10mins cos it was actually her christmas present to me so then she got thick and ruined the movie for me.. and two days more.

result.

no christmas present for me.


So...... when garlic says get out while you can <laugh>
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Yeah it kicked off first when we were making dinner, then we worked it out and watched a film, then it kicked off again in bed later and we went to sleep on it. I go downstairs for a bit stewing myself not able to sleep, then come back up to bed with hypothermia and she's wanting to hug saying i don't like arguing. Woke up the next morning and said about four words to each other, she gives me a banana for breakfast, i say have a good day and we went to work. Not really enough time or a good time to start discussing it again. That day I needed head space so left it until about 9pm to call her that day then messaged after when she obviously screened it

Think yours made the right call on star wars tbh :emoticon-0105-wink:
 
FedLadSonOfAnfield said:
It was an argument where she got angry because she thinks I don't like her friends, stuff like that. She wanted us to go out for a meal with these other couples where the two girls are her mates. I agreed but I did say that wasn't my kind of thing. So she ended up saying she doesn't feel like I'm involved enough in her life and talking to me in a way I didn't like and felt was disrespectful. Right after this her sister rings and she asks if I want to meet her at the weekend. I said I was more than happy to do that as she's family which is important. I am serious about this one, but if the silent treatment continues more than a couple of days I'll reconsider that position. For now I'm backing off
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Easiest way of solving that argument... tell her you don't!

She won't ever suspect you of ****ing them then either [HASHTAG]#winwin[/HASHTAG] ;)
 
FedLadSonOfAnfield said:
It was an argument where she got angry because she thinks I don't like her friends, stuff like that. She wanted us to go out for a meal with these other couples where the two girls are her mates. I agreed but I did say that wasn't my kind of thing. So she ended up saying she doesn't feel like I'm involved enough in her life and talking to me in a way I didn't like and felt was disrespectful. Right after this her sister rings and she asks if I want to meet her at the weekend. I said I was more than happy to do that as she's family which is important. I am serious about this one, but if the silent treatment continues more than a couple of days I'll reconsider that position. For now I'm backing off
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jesus wept.

like... grand we'll go for dinner... no lass i won't pretend to love them i dont really like ****ing dinner with strangers ffs.

no lass your mates are not the centre of my world. so they need to be? why?


tell her how she interprets tone of voice is her problem. She needs to realise theres a big difference between saying ok in a general non plussed way and actual disrespect. if she ot the hump every time her boss spoke to her she'd not last long.

Its really down to her to learn that making assumptions based on her own perceptions only highlights her own issues. If she preceives a slight where there is none thats on her.... not on you to change your way of speaking.

I mean seriously who wants 3 hours in a resturant with 4 complete strangers to you and you have to make small talk with two guys you are PROBABLY never going to see until some funciton 2 years time ro maybe never. Of course you are not into it. Its again her problem she doesn't see that you would not be as you even told her. she should be able to make allowances for this and say ok...

lets meet for a drink then go to the cinema with said couples then you've a few drinks... and after a movie to talk about.

anyway.... rant over.
 
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FedLadSonOfAnfield said:
I hate games ... especially football <laugh>
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Nothing wrong with honesty though mate. If my mrs puts an outfit on and it doesn't look right, I tell her. Makes me an arse in that moment but when I tell her she looks nice, it means something. Logic in the madness <ok>
 
Boris Johnson proud and excited at great grand ‘mummy’ discovery
Anna Catharina Bischoff died in Switzerland in 1787.


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Boris Johnson has told of his pride in learning that a mummy discovered in a Swiss church is his ancestor.

The Foreign Secretary said he was “excited” to hear that the unknown mummy, discovered four decades ago, has now been identified as his “late great grand ‘mummy'”.

Scientists said Anna Catharina Bischoff, who died in 1787, is the great-great-great-great-great-great-grandmother of Mr Johnson.

She is thought to have died from mercury poisoning, which may have been as a result of being treated for syphilis, possibly contracted while she cared for patients suffering from the sexually-transmitted disease.

Mr Johnson tweeted: “Very excited to hear about my late great grand ‘mummy’ – a pioneer in sexual health care. Very proud.”

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Ms Bischoff is the great-great-great-great-great-great-grandmother of Boris Johnson, researchers said (SRF/PA)
The 230-year-old mummy was discovered four decades ago during excavations of Barfusser church in Basel.

Anthropologist Gerhard Hotz, curator at Basel’s Natural History Museum, said identifying Ms Bischoff took two years of thorough research, having started with almost no information on who the mummy was.

He told the Press Association: “It is quite significant because nobody ever has done such a thing. We didn’t know anything.”

A trawl of ancestral archives allowed researchers to identify the grave number and name of the mummy at the church, where there were 110 plots.

They then extracted DNA from the mummy’s toe which gave a 99.8% match to two living descendants – living in Basel and Ohio, Dr Hotz said.
Ms Bischoff died in Basel aged 68.
http://home.bt.com/news/uk-news/bor...at-great-grand-mummy-discovery-11364246110299
 
FedLadSonOfAnfield said:
Yeah it kicked off first when we were making dinner, then we worked it out and watched a film, then it kicked off again in bed later and we went to sleep on it. I go downstairs for a bit stewing myself not able to sleep, then come back up to bed with hypothermia and she's wanting to hug saying i don't like arguing. Woke up the next morning and said about four words to each other, she gives me a banana for breakfast, i say have a good day and we went to work. Not really enough time or a good time to start discussing it again. That day I needed head space so left it until about 9pm to call her that day then messaged after when she obviously screened it

Think yours made the right call on star wars tbh :emoticon-0105-wink:
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Sounds like she was forgiving you that night and then talked to someone about it the next day and got angry about it, or they convinced her to be angry about it.

The thing about relationship advice is most people recommend you be a lot harder on the other person than you would normally be yourself. <laugh>. Most people are a lot harder on someone else's companion than they are their own.

She probably mentioned it to a friend or colleague and that friend or colleague said something bad and encouraged her saying they were right to be mad at you... Etc... Etc...

Problem with any argument is there are two sides (or it wouldn't be an argument)... We've heard your side and her friends would have heard hers. Her side probably puts the blame on you, so advice her friends would have given her wouldn't be in your best interest more than likely.
 
Jigsawklopp said:
Boris Johnson proud and excited at great grand ‘mummy’ discovery
Anna Catharina Bischoff died in Switzerland in 1787.


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Boris Johnson has told of his pride in learning that a mummy discovered in a Swiss church is his ancestor.

The Foreign Secretary said he was “excited” to hear that the unknown mummy, discovered four decades ago, has now been identified as his “late great grand ‘mummy'”.

Scientists said Anna Catharina Bischoff, who died in 1787, is the great-great-great-great-great-great-grandmother of Mr Johnson.

She is thought to have died from mercury poisoning, which may have been as a result of being treated for syphilis, possibly contracted while she cared for patients suffering from the sexually-transmitted disease.

Mr Johnson tweeted: “Very excited to hear about my late great grand ‘mummy’ – a pioneer in sexual health care. Very proud.”

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Ms Bischoff is the great-great-great-great-great-great-grandmother of Boris Johnson, researchers said (SRF/PA)
The 230-year-old mummy was discovered four decades ago during excavations of Barfusser church in Basel.

Anthropologist Gerhard Hotz, curator at Basel’s Natural History Museum, said identifying Ms Bischoff took two years of thorough research, having started with almost no information on who the mummy was.

He told the Press Association: “It is quite significant because nobody ever has done such a thing. We didn’t know anything.”

A trawl of ancestral archives allowed researchers to identify the grave number and name of the mummy at the church, where there were 110 plots.

They then extracted DNA from the mummy’s toe which gave a 99.8% match to two living descendants – living in Basel and Ohio, Dr Hotz said.
Ms Bischoff died in Basel aged 68.
http://home.bt.com/news/uk-news/bor...at-great-grand-mummy-discovery-11364246110299
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I bet she would make a better foreign secretary than her descendant.
 
FedLadSonOfAnfield said:
It was an argument where she got angry because she thinks I don't like her friends, stuff like that. She wanted us to go out for a meal with these other couples where the two girls are her mates. I agreed but I did say that wasn't my kind of thing. So she ended up saying she doesn't feel like I'm involved enough in her life and talking to me in a way I didn't like and felt was disrespectful. Right after this her sister rings and she asks if I want to meet her at the weekend. I said I was more than happy to do that as she's family which is important. I am serious about this one, but if the silent treatment continues more than a couple of days I'll reconsider that position. For now I'm backing off
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Don't know if this helps/
 
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Milking the cows said:
Sounds like she was forgiving you that night and then talked to someone about it the next day and got angry about it, or they convinced her to be angry about it.

The thing about relationship advice is most people recommend you be a lot harder on the other person than you would normally be yourself. <laugh>. Most people are a lot harder on someone else's companion than they are their own.

She probably mentioned it to a friend or colleague and that friend or colleague said something bad and encouraged her saying they were right to be mad at you... Etc... Etc...

Problem with any argument is there are two sides (or it wouldn't be an argument)... We've heard your side and her friends would have heard hers. Her side probably puts the blame on you, so advice her friends would have given her wouldn't be in your best interest more than likely.
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Could be, I'm sure she has spoken to people about it, she's seeing her sister tonight so it will obviously come up there, that's not because of the argument she was going out with her anyway

She messaged me back a couple of hours ago, short message, one kiss at the end instead of the usual three, said she's sorry she missed my call cos she was tired, which i buy, i was knackered that day after as well ... no apology for her part in the argument though, as you say it takes two there. Said she hoped I had a nice evening and couldn't talk because she's out tonight ... ok. I'll fully admit I was probably a bit obstinate or could've not put up as much resistance, then later she was saying you've hardly spoken to me all evening which was also probably the case, although I did speak to her normally, but was quiet and a bit unsure of the ground we were on

Says she wants to meet for a chat in person tomorrow night which could mean anything from 'we need to talk' / dumping speech to trying to work towards a positive outcome
 
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FedLadSonOfAnfield said:
Could be, I'm sure she has spoken to people about it, she's seeing her sister tonight so it will obviously come up there, that's not because of the argument she was going out with her anyway

She messaged me back a couple of hours ago, short message, one kiss at the end instead of the usual three, said she's sorry she missed my call cos she was tired, which i buy, i was knackered that day after as well ... no apology for her part in the argument though, as you say it takes two there. Said she hoped I had a nice evening and couldn't talk because she's out tonight ... ok. I'll fully admit I was probably a bit obstinate or could've not put up as much resistance, then later she was saying you've hardly spoken to me all evening which was also probably the case, although I did speak to her normally, but was quiet and a bit unsure of the ground we were on

Says she wants to meet for a chat in person tomorrow night which could mean anything from 'we need to talk' / dumping speech to trying to work towards a positive outcome
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Her sister tonight and you tomorrow? Definitely setting up a threesome mate <ok>
 
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FedLadSonOfAnfield said:
Could be, I'm sure she has spoken to people about it, she's seeing her sister tonight so it will obviously come up there, that's not because of the argument she was going out with her anyway

She messaged me back a couple of hours ago, short message, one kiss at the end instead of the usual three, said she's sorry she missed my call cos she was tired, which i buy, i was knackered that day after as well ... no apology for her part in the argument though, as you say it takes two there. Said she hoped I had a nice evening and couldn't talk because she's out tonight ... ok. I'll fully admit I was probably a bit obstinate or could've not put up as much resistance, then later she was saying you've hardly spoken to me all evening which was also probably the case, although I did speak to her normally, but was quiet and a bit unsure of the ground we were on

Says she wants to meet for a chat in person tomorrow night which could mean anything from 'we need to talk' / dumping speech to trying to work towards a positive outcome
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imo stop assuming the worst and point out she needs to stop assuming things off tone of voice or whatever and have.it out.
 
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FedLadSonOfAnfield said:
Could be, I'm sure she has spoken to people about it, she's seeing her sister tonight so it will obviously come up there, that's not because of the argument she was going out with her anyway

She messaged me back a couple of hours ago, short message, one kiss at the end instead of the usual three, said she's sorry she missed my call cos she was tired, which i buy, i was knackered that day after as well ... no apology for her part in the argument though, as you say it takes two there. Said she hoped I had a nice evening and couldn't talk because she's out tonight ... ok. I'll fully admit I was probably a bit obstinate or could've not put up as much resistance, then later she was saying you've hardly spoken to me all evening which was also probably the case, although I did speak to her normally, but was quiet and a bit unsure of the ground we were on

Says she wants to meet for a chat in person tomorrow night which could mean anything from 'we need to talk' / dumping speech to trying to work towards a positive outcome
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Just have some good old fashion make up sex and all will be good again.
 
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