Yeah it kicked off first when we were making dinner, then we worked it out and watched a film, then it kicked off again in bed later and we went to sleep on it. I go downstairs for a bit stewing myself not able to sleep, then come back up to bed with hypothermia and she's wanting to hug saying i don't like arguing. Woke up the next morning and said about four words to each other, she gives me a banana for breakfast, i say have a good day and we went to work. Not really enough time or a good time to start discussing it again. That day I needed head space so left it until about 9pm to call her that day then messaged after when she obviously screened it Think yours made the right call on star wars tbh
Easiest way of solving that argument... tell her you don't! She won't ever suspect you of ****ing them then either #winwin
Tell her to bollox then mate. I don't pay games, never have done. On our first date, I told my mrs that footy will always come first
jesus wept. like... grand we'll go for dinner... no lass i won't pretend to love them i dont really like ****ing dinner with strangers ffs. no lass your mates are not the centre of my world. so they need to be? why? tell her how she interprets tone of voice is her problem. She needs to realise theres a big difference between saying ok in a general non plussed way and actual disrespect. if she ot the hump every time her boss spoke to her she'd not last long. Its really down to her to learn that making assumptions based on her own perceptions only highlights her own issues. If she preceives a slight where there is none thats on her.... not on you to change your way of speaking. I mean seriously who wants 3 hours in a resturant with 4 complete strangers to you and you have to make small talk with two guys you are PROBABLY never going to see until some funciton 2 years time ro maybe never. Of course you are not into it. Its again her problem she doesn't see that you would not be as you even told her. she should be able to make allowances for this and say ok... lets meet for a drink then go to the cinema with said couples then you've a few drinks... and after a movie to talk about. anyway.... rant over.
Nothing wrong with honesty though mate. If my mrs puts an outfit on and it doesn't look right, I tell her. Makes me an arse in that moment but when I tell her she looks nice, it means something. Logic in the madness
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Sounds like she was forgiving you that night and then talked to someone about it the next day and got angry about it, or they convinced her to be angry about it. The thing about relationship advice is most people recommend you be a lot harder on the other person than you would normally be yourself. . Most people are a lot harder on someone else's companion than they are their own. She probably mentioned it to a friend or colleague and that friend or colleague said something bad and encouraged her saying they were right to be mad at you... Etc... Etc... Problem with any argument is there are two sides (or it wouldn't be an argument)... We've heard your side and her friends would have heard hers. Her side probably puts the blame on you, so advice her friends would have given her wouldn't be in your best interest more than likely.
I just made my red snapper curry. Awesome. Also made my paneer, pepper jalfreizi...also awesome. And some beers I can't remember the name of. On the wine now.
Could be, I'm sure she has spoken to people about it, she's seeing her sister tonight so it will obviously come up there, that's not because of the argument she was going out with her anyway She messaged me back a couple of hours ago, short message, one kiss at the end instead of the usual three, said she's sorry she missed my call cos she was tired, which i buy, i was knackered that day after as well ... no apology for her part in the argument though, as you say it takes two there. Said she hoped I had a nice evening and couldn't talk because she's out tonight ... ok. I'll fully admit I was probably a bit obstinate or could've not put up as much resistance, then later she was saying you've hardly spoken to me all evening which was also probably the case, although I did speak to her normally, but was quiet and a bit unsure of the ground we were on Says she wants to meet for a chat in person tomorrow night which could mean anything from 'we need to talk' / dumping speech to trying to work towards a positive outcome
imo stop assuming the worst and point out she needs to stop assuming things off tone of voice or whatever and have.it out.
