"I don't think density is an issue, much higher densities than we have can be handled comfortably with good planning and infrastructure - look at Hong Kong, Singapore, Tokyo. I think the 'issue' with some people is that the rise in density is caused by immigrants, if it was due to a rise in the British birth rate nothing would be said."
You're spot on Stan, and here's why I have some sympathy for the argument - firstly I would like to provide a little background to my own personal position.
Born in London, Harrow Road of Spanish parents who had met in UK after moving there as economic refugees.
They were Catholic, went to church and worked and worked. But they did not need to have siestas, have bull fighting introduced at Queens Park or need to have sangria on tap instead of Worthingtons. Their children were sent to Church of Engalnd primaries on Willesden Lane where ironically Mrs. Boyle (a delightfully mad Irish woman) taught everyone and I do mean everyone Catholicism. Mrs. Patel didn't compalin that Dipak was getting this education, Mr. Chang did not complain that Jingwai was getting this education - no one compalined, we all just gone on with it and intergrated. By the way - no special favours provided dole, etc.
I'm sure my parents and all the other parents didn't love everything about English way of life but they put up with it, respected it and learned to be a part of it.
They're children were then by nature taught to herald and respect the laws and customs of the land. That did not stop them sending us to night school in Portobello Road every week evening to learn Spanish, or Italian - it did not mean that we were less in love with England.
I now find myself in Denmark and have lived here nigh on 13 years, my children half born in UK the other half born in DK are more than encouraged to remember and live the roots of Engalnd and Spain. But we live in Denmark, we respect and love Denmark for what it provides. I am not Danish but I speak the language and I live as a Dane. I of course bring my own personal slant to everything I do and add that Spanish/English spice to so many things which those friends around me actually appreciate and learn from.
My point to this long ramble - that the majority of Syrians, Somalians, etc. do not naturally want to assimilate themselves into "British society", that their own customs take priority over the country that has provided them sanctuary.
Just a little example from the Whisky Belt here in DK. The locals have been up in arms that 30 Syrian refugees were to be housed in a nursery that had been remodelled for housing. They need not have worried, the Syrian refugees were so disgusted at where they were being proposed to be housed that they flatly refused!!!
I don't think the Brexit voters were so much against the Poles, or Spanish or French - as opposed to Romanians, the Syrians, Iraqis etc that can come through to the UK once naturalised into the EU.
Sorry, if I've offended anyone - not the intention, and if I come accross as the little Englander that I poke Col with, I apologise profusely to Col.