The jury were not asked to give a verdict on what the text meant so no, their verdict does not rule out what you said it did.
As I've explained, it's not just the text in itelf, it's the actions it triggered, which I went through.
On the subject of whether or not they asked for consent, well that's a bit murky. Both McDonald and Evans were interviewed seperately by police and whilst they both agreed that it had been asked whether it was okay for Evans to join in, they each said it was the other one that said it. At least one of them either lied to police, or gave an incorrect account to police. I don't personally put a lot of faith in either's statement regarding the question for just that reason. And again, the jury would not have had to give a verdict on whether they asked so I'm confused as to why you see it as a fact.
I'll give you some actual facts about the girl's behaviour on that night though:
Evans wasn't present for any of this and McDonald only for the times I mentioned him. What it shows, in my opinion, is that she was clearly very drunk. I find it hard to believe that it wasn't apparent to either McDonald or Evans pretty quickly that she was very drunk.
- She's on CCTV falling over in the kebab shop.
- She's on CCTV pissing in the street.
- On arrival at the hotel she realises she lost her bag and, according to McDonald, told him she thought she'd left it in the cab so McDonald chased it down(shown on CCTV). She had actually left her bag in the kebab shop about half an hour earlier(iirc, I can't remember the exact time difference).
- She's on CCTV bumping into McDonald as she loses her footing walking into the hotel with McDonald.
So when we're talking about respect for consent, no, I do not believe asking a very drunk girl whether they can join in is an example of this.
I'm glad we both agree that the text meant something more to Evans and McDonald though. I think it means something between them because they have done similar before and/or because they planned it. That's something that makes me very uncomfortable.
Your considered post makes some interesting points, which have made me reflect on the case and change my view to an extent, which I intend to set out below.
Before I do so, I comment that ai think it's great that we can have this discussion in a reasoned, logical and open way. To me a big problem with society is that some issues can not be discussed at times in this manner, due to vitreol, social pressure and conditioned thinking, and in my view that is both wrong and unhelpful. The only way in which a society can be just, fair and sensible, is if matters can be discussed in an open, rational way free from fear, conditioning and prejudice.

