Africa is different and adopting western standards all in one foul swoop would never work. A transitional period lasting perhaps 15 to 30 years is necessary and Kagame is moving in the right direction. Sure enough he s a de facto dictator despite being elected. However, he is a benevolent dictator, which I think is exactly what is required during the transition period.
As for human rights abuses, perhaps we should adopt some of them, i.e. forcing criminals to work 12 hours a day fixing pot holes, maintaining drainage and side walks and clearing rubbish. If they try to escape they are shot, but trying to escape is their choice.
Kagame has chosen to forgive and be inclusive towards Hutu's who killed 800,000 of his own Tutsi people during the genocide rather than carry out revenge so he gets accused of harbouring war criminals. Personally I think that is the right way to go.
He may choose to fund forces fighting in other countries that are friendly to his regime, so does the UK, the US, Russia, France and many other countries.
He doesn't allow opposition who clearly want to take Rwanda back to the dark ages, in the UK we also don't allow them either, we call them terrorists or hate preachers and lock them up, which comes to your first point, he is quite right to accuse the west of hypocrisy.
