No because it would offend too many realists.![]()
They're just one-eyed pessimists..... I hope. Where there's a celery stick, there's a dream!
No because it would offend too many realists.![]()
I don't know, really. I get your point it seems not to be logical, but language isn't always logical, I guess. The AP Style people actually tried to take "homophobia" out but the LGBT community argued to put it back in. And you can use "heterosexual" so it doesn't appear to be strongly correlated with etymology.
As far as AP style/writing goes, they obviously don't want their reporters offending people. But also, they want uniform usage so that readers (especially younger ones) won't get confused by words whose tone and definition aren't familiar to them. So if one word is much more common than the other, that's the one they will have you use. And in the guidelines it says that "gay is PREFERRED over "homosexual" so it's not a total ban.
As far as casual usage, I think it has to do with historically "homosexual" being associated with a medical afflication. Like its a psychological disease that needs curing. And then people shortening the term to "homo" and using it derisively. It's also rather outdated. Similar to how "colo(u)red" was once the non-offensive term, but over time has become very offensive because of the era in which it was used.
Older people who have used the word their whole lives or maybe sheltered people from rural areas who don't run into gay people often (fewer and fewer nowadays) still use it. I don't think it makes people that mad, they just might get politely corrected. If you aren't in that group, then it probably makes people wary about why you chose to use a term that hasn't been popular in 30 years.
I guess it's in that zone where it isn't inherently offensive so much as strange. People might be taken aback, but they will try to gauge your intent. As opposed to some other words where no one would possibly use it unless trying to cause offense. Like, there's no way that could have been a mistake and it's an instant fight starter.
Amused by pastor at the Republican National Congress praying for the defeat of the "Liberal Democratic party" just now. They're coming for you DTLW.
I get your point. Then again, I might want to be in a "gay" or happy mood without misleading people into thinking that I'm homosexual. I can understand people preferring to use certain terms, it's the moral outrage against even well-meaning faux pas which bemuses me. (Thinking of Cumberbatch here). Goodness knows what the heterosexual squaddies of the Gordon Highlanders made of the Gay Gordons.
It also gets confusing, and even intimidating to non-gays in the same way we have to get continuous updates on the current acceptable term for native Americans (or is that now injuns?) and inhabitants of Greenland and Northern Canada (I won't even try).
What is the most up-to-date, accepted term for the black population of the US? Is it African-American and does this also apply to white South Africans who become US citizens?
I know I'm being a tad facetious, and I'm not aiming any of this at your eminently sensible and considered post. Obviously there should be total non-acceptance of egregious terms such as the "N" word, or A*** Bandit" but the ever-changing accepted terminology phenomenon is a minefield which I believe does no favours to those who are actually seeking better understanding and equality, and addressing more urgent issues.
I get your point. Then again, I might want to be in a "gay" or happy mood without misleading people into thinking that I'm homosexual. I can understand people preferring to use certain terms, it's the moral outrage against even well-meaning faux pas which bemuses me. (Thinking of Cumberbatch here). Goodness knows what the heterosexual squaddies of the Gordon Highlanders made of the Gay Gordons.
It also gets confusing, and even intimidating to non-gays in the same way we have to get continuous updates on the current acceptable term for native Americans (or is that now injuns?) and inhabitants of Greenland and Northern Canada (I won't even try).
What is the most up-to-date, accepted term for the black population of the US? Is it African-American and does this also apply to white South Africans who become US citizens?
I know I'm being a tad facetious, and I'm not aiming any of this at your eminently sensible and considered post. Obviously there should be total non-acceptance of egregious terms such as the "N" word, or A*** Bandit" but the ever-changing accepted terminology phenomenon is a minefield which I believe does no favours to those who are actually seeking better understanding and equality, and addressing more urgent issues.
Amused by pastor at the Republican National Congress praying for the defeat of the "Liberal Democratic party" just now. They're coming for you DTLW.
I get your point. Then again, I might want to be in a "gay" or happy mood without misleading people into thinking that I'm homosexual. I can understand people preferring to use certain terms, it's the moral outrage against even well-meaning faux pas which bemuses me. (Thinking of Cumberbatch here). Goodness knows what the heterosexual squaddies of the Gordon Highlanders made of the Gay Gordons.
It also gets confusing, and even intimidating to non-gays in the same way we have to get continuous updates on the current acceptable term for native Americans (or is that now injuns?) and inhabitants of Greenland and Northern Canada (I won't even try).
What is the most up-to-date, accepted term for the black population of the US? Is it African-American and does this also apply to white South Africans who become US citizens?
I know I'm being a tad facetious, and I'm not aiming any of this at your eminently sensible and considered post. Obviously there should be total non-acceptance of egregious terms such as the "N" word, or A*** Bandit" but the ever-changing accepted terminology phenomenon is a minefield which I believe does no favours to those who are actually seeking better understanding and equality, and addressing more urgent issues.
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YouGov have polled Labour members ahead of the upcoming leadership election.
Corbyn - 54%
Eagle - 25%
Smith - 14%
Well that's the thing, Theresa sounds pretty trigger happy/confident with her answer, when could it be justified in her eyes? Although I'm sure it will never be used in my lifetime.I have no problem with that. I want my leader to be able to make those kinds of decisions. Of course I would also hope they'd add "However, short of some kind of alien invasion or computers launching an attack on mankind where the fate of the entire human race depends on it, I can't anticipate the situation will ever come up."
Well that's the thing, Theresa sounds pretty trigger happy/confident with her answer, when could it be justified in her eyes? Although I'm sure it will never be used in my lifetime.
23. Although with people who would press the button seemingly with no hesitation that changes things drastically. I just can't see it happening any time soon. Remember not too long ago everyone thought North Korea was going to do something drastic.Depends how old you are, maybe?
I can envisage, sometime in the future, someone like Trump, hitting back at terrorism, in the name of Islam, by launching a strategic nuclear strike into the middle of the Islamic territories. I really do fear for the future of my grandchildren.
Really? It is by my black friend... What's used instead? Certainly not "coloured".In the UK, the term 'blacks' is not acceptable.
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Really? It is by my black friend... What's used instead? Certainly not "coloured".