Take her out for a meal????? What and risk the "and another thing what's wrong with my cooking then". Never felt the need for a card before but what the hell, this year I'll push the boat out.
To be serious though after an afternoon in the nursing home going out is not that much of a turn on. However, when the dust has finally settled I am going to treat her to the bestest holiday I've, whoops old habits, I meant she has ever had. She has been an absolute brick,I think that's how you spell it,over the last year or so but if anyone ever tells her I said something nearly nice about her I will hunt you down relentlessly.